When I was at idate 2 years ago most people laughed at me when I said I would create a major free dating site. This year at Idate most of the major dating sites were talking about how they could go free at least behind the scenes.
It is strange to see a completely new internet bubble forming around what i’ve done. What is the most disturbing is that common sense and reality have given way to greed in many cases.
The biggest problems i see are..
1. Monetization via adsense 3 years ago was 10 times higher then it is now.
2. Free dating sites are way more hardware/resource intensive then paid sites and social networks. The reason being free sites consume more resources per user then paid sites. As for social networks, most of those are simple clustered index seeks on the database side, verse ranged scans where much of the data can’t really be partitioned in a dating site. Check Spark networks public filings and compare costs to social networks..
3. The whole idea of creating a free site and then creating widgets for myspace are rediculus. Social networks consider themselves free dating sites at least internally and I have yet to find one that will allow Plentyoffish to advertise. The day we see free dating sites advertising on myspace is the day we see facebook widgets all over myspace.
The landscape..
Probably the biggest effect of paid sites going free is it will have the effect of declaring war on social networking sites. I don’t know how this will play out, but if you brand a site as a dating site the average member stays only 3 months and has the effect of wiping out viralness. As a free site I still have to pay $5.00 a member just like paid sites if you want to advertise. With monetization at 2 cents or so a unique visitor per day, that being a unique visitor that wasn’t tricked into coming its impossible to build a free site on mass advertising. Social networks on the other hand require no advertising and are highly viral.
Other free sites.
I don’t think people realize there are other free sites, although most of them are extremely small it does show you just how hard it is to make money. Okcupid just raised 6 million, it has a staff of 9 and a self reported 70,000 uniques a day. It is easy to see why they raised money, given monetization at 2 cents a unique they were making about 45k a month. I would be surprised if the company was at break even, even assuming they spent no money advertising. Looking at technorati i’d say at least 70% of okcupid’s traffic is coming from the millions of links they have to their tests. Matchdoctor with over 10 employees has even less traffic. LTR.com with 16 employees has no traffic at all and not even launched.
I predict 2007 will be a year of carnage, many paid and new free sites will go under. Social networking and dating will attempt to merge. Paid dating sites will seek higher price points and get into personal matchmaking. Social networking sites will fight back. If free dating sites gain large market share in the US then the paid model will collapse to a fraction of the size of what it was as it has in Canada. Just ask any ex lavalife employee what happened at lavalife when plentyoffish and free dating came along.