Archive for July, 2011

Hiring my first dba.

July 30, 2011

I was reading this article today about match  talk about how they sent 1.2 billion emails in the last 6 years.    It reminded me how far Plentyoffish has come,  and how I’ve been doing all the database work except billing since the beginning.    In a few weeks i’m going to give up much of that responsible and hand it off.

I can’t believe the scale of what’s been done.  Its weird because day by day the growth isn’t that much but when you look back over the years its huge.   Plentyoffish users  send  5.5 Billion Messages a year..   That is 27 times what match.com users send.    The hard part about scaling is making it cost effective.   Match doesn’t have a problem as they earn 400M a year which works out to $2.00 an email sent on their system per year.   For match buying new hardware is nothing.    For plentyoffish we have 27 times the messages even paying a penny per email is not viable.     But what truly takes computing power is our Behavioral Matching Engine, talked about it a bit in 2007 on the today show  years before any other dating site even knew that kind of stuff was possible.   I feed it with nearly 20 billion pieces of data that are stored in the database,  and all of this is done in real time.   That is what requires hardware and lots of it.

At the end of the day the site is so large,  I need to give up the day to day running of the SQL databases.   Not only do I not have as much time to pay attention to it but I also don’t know every aspect of SQL Server anymore.  Its funny one day you knew everything there was to know about SQL server because you had to work with it daily but than a year goes by,  or 2 a few upgrades and suddenly you only kind of know whats going on.

Us Dating Market Stats.

July 17, 2011

According to IAC….

54 million singles in US
2.6 million paid at any time.
5.5 free and non paying.
8.8 million singles have used online dating.

http://ir.iac.com/eventDetail.cfm?EventID=97073

Only 5%of the population is using a paid dating site at any given point in time and another 5% a free dating site.  The real focus of most of the top dating sites is how to get the other 90% of the population to start using dating sites.

Plentyoffish Patent Pending Matching system.

July 14, 2011

We thought this was an excellent way of matching people,  thats why we filed a patent application for this years ago.

Is Facebook done?

July 11, 2011

Looks like Google + is going to split the social networking space.   Looks like its no longer going to be facebook controlling the entire space.     Its going to change the dating space a lot because so many companies are advertising directly on facebook.   Whats more amazing is that in 7 years no one has come out with a semi decent social networking competitor until google + came along.

Match.com overun by Nigerian scams?

July 9, 2011

With Plentyoffish I constantly write more lines of code to deal with scammers than all other code combined. As a result there isn’t a single media story of someone being scammed by Nigerians on Plentyoffish. Nigerian scamming is a massive business. There are many Nigerian scammers that make a living trying to scam people on paid Dating sites. It doesn’t matter how many background checks Match.com does they will never catch someone using a stolen credit cards and addresses. In the last 6 months these scammers have stepped up their game in a big way and it takes a lot of time and effort to stay ahead of them.

Match.com has got some major publicity in the last 2 weeks. Sounds like these Nigerians are becoming an epidemic.

Match.com User Scammed out of 1 Million.
http://www.globalregina.com/Okanagan+woman+scammed+million+online+dating+scam/5067500/story.html

Match.com user Scammed
http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/We_Find_Them/online-dating-nightmare-ny-woman-scammed-thousands-soldier/story?id=13898664

match user scammed for Millions.
http://www.chinapost.com.tw/taiwan/national/national-news/2011/07/01/308198/Scammer-cons.htm

Another match scam.

http://www.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/NewsArchive/artikel.php?ID=213114

Match.com user scammed
http://www.bayofplentytimes.co.nz/have-your-say/news/grandmother-duped-in-dating-scam/3950969/

Match.com scams on ABC News 20/20
http://www.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/crime/artikel.php?ID=212375


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